People say that your website is supposed to be this incredible 24/7 salesperson, but yours never got the memo. It’s never really sold anyone or communicated your vision well.
It’s not from a lack of trying. You’ve rewritten your homepage headline seventeen times. You’ve asked friends for feedback. Taken a copywriting course. Spent a Sunday afternoon moving paragraphs around. And when you’re done, it’s still… off. Still accurate. Still professional. Still wrong.
Here’s what’s actually happening: your copy isn’t bad. It’s pointed in the wrong direction.
Most coaching websites focus on the coach, not the visitor. The hard truth is that your visitor didn’t come to learn about you. They came because they have a problem and they’re trying to figure out if you can solve it. And if your copy leads with your process instead of their experience, they’ll leave before they ever find out that you can.
That’s the real reason your copy isn’t converting — and why it’s failing to convey your vision. Not bad writing. Wrong direction.
The problem is that you’re too close to it. You’ve read your own copy so many times that the words have stopped meaning anything. It’s technically correct. It says what you do. But it doesn’t pull anyone in — and you can’t figure out why, which makes it worse, because you can’t fix what you can’t diagnose.
You know you’re better than how your website represents you. But despite your efforts, your website never catches up.
So you keep adding a disclaimer every time you have to share your link, “Sorry, it’s a bit outdated, fixing it is on my to-do list.” Or maybe you put off raising your rates, telling yourself, “Now isn’t the right time, I’ll do it once I fix my website.”
It’s easy to fall into this trap — you’re busy running a successful coaching business, you don’t have time to master website copywriting on top of everything else. But even if you did invest that time, you’re still too close to your own work to write about it clearly.
You know your methodology intimately. You’ve spent years developing it. You’ve explained it so many times that you’ve lost the ability to hear how it lands on someone encountering it for the first time. You can’t unknow what you know — which means you can’t see your offer the way a stranger sees it. So you describe it from the inside, in the way that makes sense to you, because that’s what you know. Unfortunately, it never quite lands for the person reading it.
This is why rewriting the headline doesn’t fix it. The problem isn’t the headline, it’s that your website’s perspective is from the inside facing out, when it should go from the outside facing in.
Your website needs to orient outsiders who don’t have the slightest clue about what you do or why it matters.
When you get that framing right, discovery calls change completely. People show up ready to hire you because they learned everything they needed to feel confident from your website. You stop apologizing for your website, because you’re actually proud of it. And you feel confident about raising your prices, because your website finally shows off exactly how awesome you are.
Writing your website from the outside-in isn’t easy, but putting in the work will help you understand your own brand better. As Livi, an Untemplate Site client, put it: “So much of this is really making me understand my own brand better.”
Here are three strategies for getting there.
Strategy 1: Write from the outside in, not the inside out
Most coaches write their website copy from their own perspective. Here’s what I do, here’s how I do it, here’s my methodology, here’s my process. It’s accurate. It’s thorough. It makes perfect sense to you.
But your reader didn’t come to your website to learn about you. They came because they have a problem and they’re looking for a solution. The copy that converts isn’t the copy that best describes your offer — it’s the copy that most accurately reflects the reader’s experience back at them.
Inside-out copy sounds like: “I help women find balance through a holistic approach that combines mindset and somatic work.”
Outside-in copy sounds like: “You’ve tried everything. The journaling, the boundaries, the therapy. You’re still exhausted and you can’t figure out why.”
Notice the difference? One describes the coach. The other describes the reader. Only one makes her feel seen. Only one makes her keep reading.
The reason coaches default to inside-out is straightforward: you’re close to your own work. You know your methodology intimately. You’ve spent years developing it. So naturally you lead with it. Because it’s important. Because details matter. Because if they knew all of this, hiring you would be a no-brainer.
I get it. I’ve struggled with that instinct, too. But you have to take off the expert hat and accept that the people who need your expertise aren’t going to nerd out on the details. If they did, they wouldn’t need you.
Instead, you need to set the methodology aside, because your reader isn’t interested in it, at least not yet. Your reader cares about whether you understand their problem. Once you’ve shown them that you do, then and only then will they begin to care about methodology.
Ok, so now you understand that you need to write from your reader’s point of view, not your own. But how can you tell when you’re doing it right?
A quick diagnostic: count how many times your homepage says “I” versus “you.” If “I” is winning by a significant margin, your copy is talking about you instead of to your reader.
Within my done-for-you strategy, copy, design, and build website offer, I use a method called Voice Mining to help me both write in your voice and from the outside-in. I explain the process in more detail in The Untemplate Framework: How to Stop Guessing What to Put on Your Website, but here’s the quick version.
During the project intake, I ask you to provide your audience’s language: DMs, testimonials, social media comments — anything that has them describing their problem in their own words. I supplement that with independent market research into your niche. I’ll compile everything into a reference document with your key buyer phrases.
When I start writing, I refer back to that document for the key ideas, words, and phrases that will keep the copy rooted in the reader’s experience. That’s the foundation your website is built on, with your voice and methodology woven into the reader experience.
My Untemplate Framework takes this another step further. Before I begin writing, you’ll sign-off on your Untemplate Playbook, a web strategy document that guides what pages you need on your website, and what each page needs to do. It considers where the visitor is in their decision-making process and sets conversion goals for each page accordingly.
For example, a page written for someone who’s never heard of you sounds completely different from one written for someone who’s almost ready to hire you. Knowing the difference before you write a word keeps the copy pointed outward rather than inward.
Strategy 2: Mine your audience’s language, not your own
Knowing you should write from your reader’s perspective is one thing. Knowing where to find the words that actually resonate with them is another.
Many people sit down to write their website copy and try to generate it from scratch — staring at a blank doc, trying to articulate what they do in a way that sounds compelling. The problem isn’t their writing ability. It’s that they’re fishing in the wrong pond.
Other people might avoid the blank-page brain block by looking at competitors’ websites and mimicking what they see. In many ways, this is worse — that kind of copy is less genuine (it’s not really from you), and it’s not from your audience (at best, it’s your competitor’s audience). I wrote the very first version of my website this way. It sucked.
The good news is that the best copy for your website already exists. Your clients wrote it. You just haven’t collected it yet.
Your clients describe your value better than you ever will — because they describe it from the outside, in plain language, without the curse of knowledge that comes from being too close to your own work.
When a past client says “I finally feel like I can breathe again” that’s more powerful than “I help high-achieving women reduce stress.” When they say “I used to avoid every hard conversation and now I actually look forward to them” — that’s your copy. Not inspiration for your copy. Your actual copy. (Yes, really. This isn’t school, plagiarizing is totally cool.)
Testimonials are the most obvious source, but not the only one. Some other places to look:
- DMs where a client described their problem before hiring you.
- Comments on your social posts where someone told you what resonated.
- Discovery call notes where a prospect said something in their own words that stopped you in your tracks.
- Reddit threads and Facebook groups where your ideal client vents about the exact problem you solve.
All of it is raw material. All of it can be fuel for your website content.
You’re not just collecting quotes to paste into a testimonial section (don’t do that without asking first, and definitely don’t do it if the quote isn’t from an actual client). You’re listening for language patterns — the specific words and phrases your audience reaches for when they’re being honest about their problem. Not the polished version. The 2am version.
A burnout coach’s audience says “I’m exhausted but I can’t stop.” A divorce coach’s audience says “I don’t even recognize myself anymore.” A boundaries coach’s audience says “I say yes to everything and resent everyone.” That’s the language that belongs on their homepage — not a constructed headline about transformation, but the words their clients actually use when they finally admit what’s wrong.
AI can help you recognize the patterns, but it can’t replace collecting the real words that real humans have said. While you can prompt it to create a decent profile of a persona’s pains and desires, you’ll miss out on the juicy phrases that make for the best marketing.
Once you’ve collected enough raw material, patterns emerge. The same frustrations described different ways. The same desires in different words. The same fears across multiple conversations. That’s your copy strategy — find the pattern, use the language, organize it into a structure that guides the reader toward a clear next step.
This is exactly what Voice Mining does — systematically and at scale. When I read through all of your submitted materials, I’m looking for patterns — recurring phrases, distinctive word choices, how you structure an argument, and what your audience says when they’re not trying to sound professional.
The result is website copy that sounds like you because it came from you — and that resonates with your audience because it came from them too. You don’t have to be a good copywriter. You just have to have been showing up in your business — posting, coaching, collecting testimonials — which you already have been. Voice Mining turns that existing body of work into website copy without you having to generate anything from scratch.
Strategy 3: Give every page one job
You can have outside-in copy that uses all the right language — and still lose visitors — if the page it lives on is trying to do too many things at once.
Most coaching websites treat pages like rooms in a house — each one a contained space with everything the visitor might possibly need crammed into it. The homepage explains the offer, tells the story, lists the services, shows the testimonials, and ends with a contact form. The about page is a biography plus a philosophy plus a services overview plus a call-to-action (CTA) to book a call. Every page tries to anticipate every question a visitor might have — and in doing so, answers none of them clearly enough to move anyone forward.
A page that tries to do everything converts nothing.
Every time you give a visitor more than one thing to focus on, you split their attention. Every time you give them more than one next step, you force a decision before they can take action. And most people, when faced with too many decisions, make the easiest one — they leave.
The right question to ask about every page before you write a word: what is the one thing I want this visitor to do when they finish reading? Not the three things. The one thing. Every section on that page should be earning its place by moving the visitor toward that one thing. If a section isn’t doing that, it belongs somewhere else — or nowhere at all.
What this looks like across different page types: a homepage built for lead capture looks nothing like one built to get visitors to a services page. An about page designed to build enough trust for a discovery call is structured differently from one warming up a cold audience who found you through a blog post. A sales page for someone who came through an audit is shorter and more direct than one built for someone who’s never heard of you. The page type matters. The visitor’s awareness level matters. The conversion goal matters. None of those things are decided by which template you picked.
And most coaching websites have another problem underneath this one: dead ends. The visitor reads to the bottom of a page and there’s nothing there — or worse, a generic “learn more” button that leads nowhere useful. Every page needs a next step that’s specific, logical, and matched to where the visitor is in their decision-making process. Someone landing on your homepage for the first time isn’t ready to book a call. Someone who’s read your sales page, scrolled to the bottom, and nodded the whole way through probably is. The CTA has to match the moment.
This is where the Untemplate Playbook does its most important work. Before I write a single word, I assign every page in the sitemap an archetype — a strategic framework that defines its purpose, conversion goal, and the copy approach to use.
For example, a business coach whose audience needs solid proof before they’ll trust anyone gets different page archetypes than a family coach whose audience makes decisions based on emotional connection. I don’t choose archetypes based on what looks good or what your template includes. I choose and customize them based on what your specific visitor needs to feel, understand, and do at that specific moment in their journey.
The content architecture built into the Playbook then connects every page to the next — no dead ends, no vague buttons, no pages that leave the visitor stranded. Every section has a purpose. Every page has a next step. The visitor always knows where they are and where to go — without you having to explain it on every sales call.
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“But I’ve tried to fix my copy before and it didn’t work.”
Fair. And worth addressing directly.
By now, you should see why these strategies make sense. What’s harder to believe is that you can actually implement them yourself, given that you’ve tried before and it didn’t stick.
The answer isn’t that you need to try harder or learn more. It’s that writing your own copy isn’t a skills problem — it’s a proximity problem. You are too close to your own work to see it the way a stranger sees it. You know too much about your methodology to remember what it felt like not to understand it. You’ve explained your offer so many times that you’ve lost the ability to hear how it lands on someone encountering it for the first time.
This is why Voice Mining works where DIY attempts don’t — not because it’s a better writing technique, but because it removes you from the writing process entirely. The copy doesn’t come from you trying to describe yourself more clearly. It comes from your audience already having described you, and from someone outside your own head organizing that into something strategic.
The problem was never that you couldn’t write. The problem was that you were writing about yourself instead of letting your audience write it for you.
Your copy should be working harder than you are
Three strategies. One through line: your website copy isn’t for you. It’s for the person reading it.
When you write from the outside in, they feel seen before they know anything about your offer. When you mine your audience’s language, they recognize themselves in your words. When every page has one job, they always know what to do next.
That’s when a website stops being something you manage and starts being something that works — attracting the right people, filtering out the wrong ones, and moving warm prospects toward you while you’re busy doing everything else.
You’ve done the hard work of building something worth sharing. Your website should be doing the same.
Ready to hand this off entirely?
The Untemplate Site is done-for-you strategy, copy, design, and build — for coaches who are done with websites that look fine and do nothing. Voice Mining, the Untemplate Playbook, and phase-by-phase milestones, all built around your story and your audience’s language.
Not sure if your copy problem is the only thing holding your site back? The Template Trap Audit covers the full picture — copy, strategy, design, and tech — and tells you exactly what’s broken and what to fix first.
